For me my look is meant to be personally expressive, a visual expression of some feelings inside me that can’t really be explained, but that my look seems to convey. The long hair and beard, always wearing a black top seem to come together in this really great way to show it 😎

To me my look is perfect, in the sense that it’s “perfectly me”, and that’s what I’m seeking in it. It starts with us, loving our own look on a personal level and seeing a conveyance of ourselves at heart when we look in the mirror. Feeling this from ourselves is what really matters regarding our look. The support of others is a wonderful thing that I always appreciate, I definitely love it when a woman finds me attractive, or when my look speaks to someone male or female giving a sense of a kindred spirit without needing attraction. I’m definitely very appreciative of that and it means a lot.

But it’s key to remember that the purest validation is internal within ourselves, and that’s where it matters most. The cherished support of others is because they appreciate what we are at heart, and in the case of an expressive look, the look that we styled to express things inside. There are feelings inside us only we understand, a unique way each of us experience things we love that we feel them through. Others may do the same things, but we are the only one that can experience them through our lens and feel them the way we do. An expressive look showcases these feelings inside us, with a chosen style around our unique face only we have, going beautifully with whatever body type we have.

Through this self love that deeply appreciates this uniqueness inside us, when we feel our look expresses it it is perfect, we love what we see. It’s good to be ‘into ourselves’, I often admire my own look in the mirror or camera in ‘captivated vanity’ 😎 hehe. You’re the only one it has to look great to, the appreciation of others adds more to the personal appreciation we already have for ourselves that is enough to enjoy it deeply.

It should not be seen as a bad thing, it’s great to feel that for and enjoy that with yourself in appreciating and seeing your own look. It’s never about thinking we’re better than anyone, I encourage everyone to feel this same way about themselves and find their own expressive look if they haven’t already. It is very much a beautifully individualistic thing. Body positivity is about appreciating this in ourself and giving out energy that encourages everyone to do the same. This kind of appreciation and love is infinite, and mutual support works in symbiosis in an eternal cycle of mutual appreciation that only gets better as it goes along.